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		<title>Tripping over Buddha&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2011 16:31:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Tripping over Buddha” is an expression about not recognizing the obvious…or important stuff. “If you were looking for Buddha [or insert subject of VALUE here], you could trip over him and be unaware of whom you had encountered.” Such a &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2011/03/07/tripping-over-buddha/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1803&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>“Tripping over Buddha” is an expression about not recognizing the obvious…or important stuff.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>“If you were looking for Buddha [<span style="color:#800000;">or insert subject of VALUE here</span>], you could trip over him and be unaware of whom you had encountered.” </strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Such a statement can be pejorative or it can be about nothing more than the difficulty in not being able to see the forest for the trees. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Likewise, if we’re looking for a way to understand what the hell is going on in the world and we need some place to start, the recommendation is for you to start with “The Man in the Mirror” (thank you, Michael Jackson).  Us.  <em>Homo sapiens</em>. </strong></p>
<p><strong>By starting with ‘us’ then there’s a chance that you’ll learn how frustratingly complex organisms we are. For starters, perhaps you’ll be amused that we all</strong></p>
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<li><strong></strong><strong>sense things that aren’t there (do we really need examples?) and </strong></li>
<li><strong></strong><strong>don’t sense things that are there (do we really need examples?)</strong></li>
<li><strong>but continually muster outrage, violence, and retribution when we aren’t taken serious about our interpretations of life – from art to asinine and politics to potentates </strong></li>
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<p><strong>So, as a starting place for getting to know what makes us tick, what makes us frail and what is the best hope we have of recognizing Buddha [<span style="color:#800000;">or subject of VALUE here</span>] if we should trip over him (or her), <a href="http://www.g2conline.org/">START HERE. </a></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.g2conline.org/#"><strong>www.g2conline.org/#</strong></a></p>
<p><strong>This is by far the best site I have ever come across with regards to what’s going on about ‘us’. <em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Yes</span></em>, great for sorting out the complexity from the hyperbole. <em> <span style="text-decoration:underline;">No</span></em>, it can&#8217;t be watched and absorbed in a week, or on YouTube.   So go look, mess around, add it to your computer&#8217;s links, find what you are interested in or just gape at the wonders of it all but do it.</strong></p>
<p><strong>And, if you do, I hope you enjoy it.</strong></p>
<p><strong>But, like the Earl Nightingale once recounted, if you do take the time and effort to examine only a spat of the rules that govern you, in the end you’ll find you’re alone because the effort to grasp even the simple rules was too great a challenge for pretenders.  You know, those who claim to be looking for Buddha [or what the hell is going on] but don’t recognize what is there in front of them when it’s encountered.</strong></p>
<p><strong>If you do process what is <a href="http://www.g2conline.org/">there</a> and you come away convinced there is something more or better or of greater value, then fine.  Now you know some serious empirical stuff you are rejecting and Buddha [<span style="color:#800000;">or subject of VALUE here</span>] may be right around the corner.</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2011 16:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This morning is quite amusing in Austin. Snow fell.   and exposed a severe shortage of knowledge about the world. I watch a guy pour a small cup of coffee in front of his wheels to help him spin the &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2011/02/04/snow-in-texas-or-how-badly-the-public-misunderstands-physics/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1785&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This morning is quite amusing in Austin.</p>
<p>Snow fell.   and exposed a severe shortage of knowledge about the world.</p>
<p>I watch a guy pour a small cup of coffee in front of his wheels to help him spin the tires.   Severe misunderstanding of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heat_equation" target="_blank">Heat Equation</a> and <a href="http://www.physicstutorials.org/index.php/home/heat-temperature-and-thermal-expansion/phase-transition-of-water" target="_blank">Phase Transitions</a>.  The coffee froze.  The car did not escape.</p>
<p>Just now I watched 5 cars spin out on our neighborhood iced over hilly streets.   Probably missed the class on the <a href="http://hypertextbook.com/facts/2004/GennaAbleman.shtml" target="_blank">Coefficient of Friction</a>.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s see how many more physics lessons come up today here in Texas!</p>
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		<title>Hypocritical Tea Party Members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Aug 2010 22:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Ron Williams &#8211; citizen, contributor and patriot &#8211; 8-22-10 [Ron Williams is a retired attorney living in The Woodlands, TX and a welcome guest contributor to Social Mode] There can be no question but that there are serious issues &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2010/08/22/hypocritical-tea-party-members/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1691&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Ron Williams &#8211; citizen, contributor and patriot &#8211; 8-22-10</p>
<h2>[Ron Williams is a retired attorney living in The Woodlands, TX and a welcome guest contributor to Social Mode]</h2>
<p>There can be no question but that there are serious issues surrounding illegal immigration into the United States.  The most pressing concern revolves around illegal immigration from Mexico.  It is interesting to note however that most people, and most particularly right-wing Republican Tea Party, are reluctant to recognize that the real issue is that illegal immigration from Mexico, which means primarily Mexicans, which causes an uncertain relationship with American citizens with Hispanic heritage.  It should not create a problem to talk about an immigration problem involving Mexicans.  After all that is the border we share where most of the illegal immigrants are entering the United States.  It is sort of like talking about a race problem in the United States and not admitting that the primary group impacted by this issue is African-Americans.</p>
<p>It is thus, a double whammy to watch Republicans dance around the issue of Mexican illegal immigration, when that is the very issue with which they are concerned.  The first &#8220;whammy&#8221; involves a hypocritical failure to acknowledge that the primary target of their ire is directed at Mexicans.  The second &#8220;whammy&#8221;, which I will address in a moment, is the right wing Republican constant claim of their defense of the quote &#8220;original&#8221; constitution and the claim that liberals want to change it.</p>
<p>Returning to the topic of illegal immigration, it is not illegal immigration from Canada that the right wing is concerned about.  It is illegal immigration from Mexico. Arizona, for example, recently passed legislation allowing its police to stop anyone they believe is an illegal immigrant.  Once stopped, that person must provide evidence that they are a legal immigrant or a US citizen.  Arizona Republicans insist that this legislation is not deemed to target Hispanics.  But just who can we imagine the police are going to be stopping, blue-eyed blondes who look like they have snuck in the country from Denmark?  No, Hispanics.</p>
<h2>It is hypocrisy of the right wing to assert otherwise.</h2>
<p>Thus, I believe it is not hard to make the assertion that it is because the illegal immigrants are Mexicans that the issue has gained so much prominence.  I believe that the issue of race or &#8220;racism&#8221; is at the heart of the illegal immigration controversy today.  If we had Canadian citizens flooding into this country in numbers comparable to the current influx from Mexico, I really do not believe that there would be the same cries for fence building and citizenship-checking laws being made by the conservative right wing.</p>
<p>In fact, it is my position that the majority of Republicans know no bounds to their hypocrisy.  Many of the Tea Party group are now pushing for an amendment to the 14th Amendment so that babies born presumably to illegal Mexican immigrants will no longer be granted automatic United States citizenship.  As being proposed, the revised 14th Amendment would provide that in order to be deemed a US citizen; you must prove that you were born of parents who were US citizens.  I don&#8217;t know about you, but I might have a hard time proving that my mother was a US citizen because I might have a hard time proving that her mother was a US citizen and so forth.  How about how you?</p>
<p>In fact, what sort of documentation would you have to provide in order to prove that your parents were legal citizens at the time of your birth, or even their birth?  Again, I note that this was not a problem when immigrants entered the country from England, Italy, Ireland, or even Cuba.  It&#8217;s still not a problem for anyone sneaking in from Canada.  It&#8217;s those pesky Mexicans who are creating the problem.  But the Tea Party members are too hypocritical to say the truth.  And it is also a very short step to say that racism is the driving force behind the conservative right wing Tea Parties move.  They want to prevent those Mexicans from gaining US citizenship.  The fewer Mexican heritage voters created the better.</p>
<p>This is even more disappointing when we have to constantly listen to Tea Party members talk about their belief in the Inviolate Constitution and their speaking with utter dismay about how liberals constantly want to reinterpret the Constitution.  The right wing does not want to &#8220;reinterpret&#8221; the original document.  They just want to change the Constitution&#8217;s actual written the language to fit whatever they believe ought to be the current end result.  Again, this is the height of hypocrisy.  For example, we can see very clearly that the &#8220;conservative&#8221; judges appointed by Republicans to the Supreme Court have been busy reinterpreting long-held legal principles in a new way to fit their Conservative views.  One would have to call these judges &#8220;activists&#8221; despite Republican claims that they are just interpreting the Constitution in its &#8220;original&#8221; understanding.  Republicans now have the nerve to claim that the two President Obama appointments to the current Supreme Court are activist judges.  Hypocrisy in Its finest form.</p>
<p>I have a suggestion for my Right Wing Republican Tea Party counterparts.  If we are going to open up the Constitution and revisit the 14th Amendment, let me suggest that we take another look at the 2nd Amendment to the Constitution regarding the right of the people to bear arms.  There have been some questions as to whether this amendment applied to the state militia i.e. the National Guard, or to an individual&#8217;s right to keep a handgun or even an AK-47.  If you are going to start to change the Constitution to address current issues, let&#8217;s address the question of whether we should allow individuals to own all sorts of weapons.  After all, when the 2nd Amendment was drafted we didn&#8217;t have machine guns or 15-round hand guns or 50 caliber sniper weapons.  When the Constitution was written and the amendments added, we didn&#8217;t have the large-scale drug problems or the gang wars associated with guns.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s time we revisit the 2nd Amendment to address these gun issues.  Somehow I bet the strict construction right wing Republicans will not be so open to revisiting the 2nd Amendment with the idea of having individual gun use restricted.  But, why not?  If they believe it&#8217;s time to revisit one of the amendments, why not start to think about taking a look at revisiting some of the others.  What about the 1st Amendment and right to free speech?  See the problem?  I&#8217;m sure that those of you reading this can think of one or two of the other amendments you believe it might make sense to revisit today.</p>
<p>I, for one, do not believe it is necessary to revisit any of the amendments to the Constitution.  The Constitution is broad.  It welcomes new interpretations that encompass new issues.  What is so wise about the way so drafters wrote the Constitution and its amendments is that its guiding principles provide a roadmap for addressing modern problems.  What I recommend is that my right wing Republican Tea Party friends take a deep breath and give careful consideration to what they&#8217;re really asking when they began to recommend re-writing the Constitution and its original 14 Amendments.  I really believe we would be on any dangerous course should we begin to start rewriting this important and very wise document.  We can undo the very nature of this country.  And that would be a very sad thing to do.</p>
<p>Finally, we must come to the conclusion that the Tea Party conservatives in fact have little use for the &#8220;real&#8221; Constitution.  They will quote its virtues to you when it suits their needs, but it will push to change its very language wind that would suit their purpose.  I believe it is the height of hypocrisy.  No more than that, I believe it shows their immorality.  And such immorality is dangerous.  Therefore, we must fight against the Tea Party conservatives because if they were to have their way, the very fabric of this country will be destroyed.  And that is not something I would like to see happen.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may have seen it on news shows… Athletic Clubs with cardio programs where members jump up and down as if using a jump rope but don’t really have a rope to jump.  Why?  The club doesn’t want people to &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2010/08/13/pep-fantastic/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1684&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><strong>You may have seen it on news shows… </strong></h2>
<p><strong>Athletic Clubs with cardio programs where members jump up and down as if using a jump rope but don’t really have a rope to jump.  Why?  The club doesn’t want people to feel bad if they can’t jump rope like others in the class&#8230; &#8230;or feel bad if they mess up in front of people not messing up. </strong></p>
<p><strong>How about the no tryouts, no exercise, no activities pep clubs that provide a uniform, trophy at the end of the season and certificate saying they are, “PEP FANtastic!”   Really, this is no joke and it is not a knock-off of the ABC TV show “The Middle” where daughter Sue is the easy-to-recognize enabled student with no clue how to compete… and she is not taught how by parents or teachers or the church or synagogues, or her horoscope. </strong></p>
<p><strong>So, should schools do the about the same thing in math, history, chemistry, business, accounting and insurance as the athletic club does for its members?   How about a prize for <span style="color:#800000;"><em>attempting</em> </span>to clean up the oil spill in the gulf or </strong><strong> <em><span style="color:#800000;">attempting</span></em> </strong><strong>put a man on the moon!  &#8220;What?&#8221;, you say, “That wouldn’t make sense???!!!”  Of course it doesn’t make sense!  But that’s what is being done in education due to myopicos like Alfie Kohn.  Ya, the one and only who writes as an education ‘expert’ for <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/08/13/chamomile-tea-party-urges_n_681360.html#s126404">The Huffington Post</a> blog….</strong> <strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Competition is what is.  It starts with the struggle out of the birth canal. For many it ends with seeing who can live the longest with the most toys, or experiences, or charities, or wives, or single malt Scotches. We learn to eat, to live, to work and to mate and there is a competitive component in every second of it.  Those that don’t compete never learn skills that they can use in life later on to provide for their families, communities and the world.  And then we wonder why we are with competitive academics in the world, or why there are more and more 3<sup>rd</sup> world foreign-borns in colleges and universities, engineering schools, MBA programs, Ph.D. programs, medical schools, etc.  [No, that is not bigotry; it is that they get it!] The answer is </strong><strong><em>competition</em>.  They are serious about it and we (whoever that means) aren’t serious about it. </strong></p>
<h2 style="padding-left:30px;"><strong>Perhaps it is a vestige of our &#8216;Man-is-superior-to-all-the-rest-of-the-animals; we don&#8217;t compete like they do!&#8217; </strong><strong>shtick</strong><strong>. How&#8217;s that workin these days.  Are we winning any competitive wars you&#8217;ve noticed?<br />
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<p><strong>In fact, we’re frequently going in the opposite direction due to the early years being filled with the ‘help’ being offered from the very beginning.  Businesses from McDonald’s to McDonald-Douglas spend billions every year teaching their employees how to compete at different levels.  University of Phoenix makes a living for a lot of investors in grades for profit involving students companies send them who can’t compete; write, read, organize, manage or lead.  If we were doing such a great job they would be out of business.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Community Colleges have many students that don’t know how to compete.  They haven’t competed up to the point of college and now competing for jobs is almost foreign to them, not because of the jobs, but because they didn’t get the subtle or the explicate competitive approaches or experiences that are learned early on.  The &#8216;help&#8217; provided is to not let them come into contact with any consequences.<br />
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<p><strong>What is ‘entitlement’?  It is what adults do to their children and what students learn that ensures that they do not have to compete to get what they want; they do not have to attend to what works and that they can get the same credit for ‘trying’ as for succeeding.   They say it is for the children but it isn’t; its for them, the parents. </strong></p>
<p><strong>FFPS and similar organization institutionalize the entitlement.  Learning to ride a bike you can get hurt.  Get hurt??? No, we’ll cover you in Velcro pads so if your training wheels don’t protect you and you fall, you’ll not have to connect with any unpleasant consequences.  Bad nightmares; bad marriages, bad jobs, bad DUI???  Shameful; you shouldn’t have to suffer.  We’ll get you in a program where you are given the drug <a href="http://www.livescience.com/health/070702_bad_memories.html">propranolol</a> to eradicate the experience, or dampen the bad history or events.   The louder the communities yell about the child, student, or young adult, the more and more it becomes about everything else but those groups.</strong></p>
<p><strong>For the things valued in life, there is way too many ‘self-referential’ content today and it is working to our dis-service, from families to the halls of Congress.   That being said, for every virtue listed to reduce competitive activities, there is an equal and larger set that most of us see as a product of competition. </strong></p>
<p><strong>For the things valued in life, there is way too many  ‘self-referential’ content today and it is working to our dis-service,  from families to the halls of Congress.   That being said, for every  &#8216;virtue&#8217; listed to reduce competitive activities, there is an equal and  larger set of virtues that are a product of competition. </strong></p>
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<h2><strong>self-composure </strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-reliance </strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-control</strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-assured</strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-analysis</strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-abnegation </strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-enriched </strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-judgment</strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-mastery </strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-reflection </strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-restraint</strong></h2>
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<h2><strong>self-trust</strong></h2>
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<p><strong>Here is just one option provided by the FFPS web site…</strong></p>
<p><strong>FFPS [Fun, Fair, Positive Soccer] </strong></p>
<blockquote><p>…to provide every youth soccer player with a positive experience. They saw the main problem as parents who put too much pressure on the kids to perform and the programs that emphasized winning as the main focus. They developed a system so the kids could play and enjoy the sport without demands from adults to win or perform. They modified the rules and designed a process of 5 aside rules, equal play with a unique equal substitution system, balanced teams, and parent training to ensure that it would be fair. The parents would behave and be positive so it would be really <strong>&#8220;Made For Kids&#8221;</strong>.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>We wouldn’t want the kids to actually perform as in ‘do’ something…. Why not just take the nets and goalie away and have the kids run up and down the field….  I know that might look more like baby sitting but then again, no one would have to explain why the other team had more goals than your team did.  <em>Don’t drink the Cool Aide…</em></strong></p>
<p><strong>Geeze! </strong></p>
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		<title>Business People Learning From Elite Athletes:  One Approach</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 20:09:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The 5th in a 5-Part Series… To start, the goal is not to be an ‘elite’ athlete… (5)   Your actions are the consequences of – and an impetus for – action When a golfer golfs, there is an intention that &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2010/06/09/business-people-learning-from-elite-athletes-one-approach-4/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1646&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>The 5th in a 5-Part Series…</strong></span></p>
<h2><strong><span style="color:#800000;">To start, the goal is not to be an ‘elite’ athlete…</span></strong></h2>
<h2>(5)   <strong>Your actions are the consequences of – and an impetus for – action </strong></h2>
<p>When a golfer golfs, there is an intention that is enacted by the hitter when the club makes contact with the ball. To the frustration of all levels of golfers, it is not directly related to the trajectory of the ball.  Such is it for a lot of business as well.  Intention only ‘seems’ related to action… but that is an illusion. Cognitive gymnastics are NOT related to the physics involved in action.  Intention is inferred, and the physics of the ball, in this case, is tangibly real.  A history of training practice, trial and error, and mirror neurons interacting with consequences has guided the body to perform. As an elite athlete has said over and over,</p>
<blockquote><p>It’s <em>not </em>the racquet. It’s <em>not</em> the shoes.  It’s <em>not</em> the ball, the court or the noise.  It’s the mechanics and muscle memory – that’s means ‘me’.”</p></blockquote>
<h3>The result:</h3>
<p>The golfer is left with any delta between their inferences and their behavior to rationalize his or her actions.  Good or bad results (both relative terms) contribute to adjustments that confirm or frustrate the golfer’s next set of actions. Don&#8217;t make adjustment, don&#8217;t whine about the shots you take.  Same for business, isn&#8217;t it!</p>
<p>When you want something in business life or in sport, recognize that successive approximations is the mode&#8230; the adaptation, the mobility, that exists to allow you to get closer to your goals or escape from a not-so-good conditions. <span style="color:#000000;"><em>It is NEVER EVER about some binary event.</em></span> <strong>IT IS</strong> about <span style="text-decoration:underline;">hundreds of thousands</span> of intricate, small tacitly known events leading up to some specific execution of an action.  Business success is NEVER EVER about making ‘<em>THE deal</em>.’  <strong>IT IS</strong> about the <span style="text-decoration:underline;">millions</span> of tacitly known events that put one in position to execute some specific actions you are focused on.</p>
<h3><em>Isn&#8217;t competition great!</em></h3>
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		<title>Review Ubuntu 10.04 Lucid Lynx</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 16:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I put Ubuntu 10.04 on a Dell XPS laptop on Friday. All weekend I&#8217;ve put it through the paces on general computing, mobility, battery life, software installs, programming tasks, and everything else to test whether I can use it on &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2010/06/06/review-ubuntu-10-04-lucid-lynx/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1631&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I put Ubuntu 10.04 on a Dell XPS laptop on Friday.  All weekend I&#8217;ve put it through the paces on general computing, mobility, battery life, software installs, programming tasks, and everything else to test whether I can use it on a daily basis.</p>
<p>Good news!  I can!</p>
<p>It might be the very first Linux distro and version I&#8217;ve been able to completely use out of the box without doing a single compile of a driver or essential software package.</p>
<p>From WiFi to backlit keyboard to stand by mode to webcam and skype calls to long painful ATI 3d drivers.  It all works.</p>
<p>Even better&#8230; the darn thing is very &#8220;pretty&#8221;.   I love the integrated mail, chat and social stream into the desktop alerts.  I love the new default visual styles.   I love the Ubuntu Software Center.</p>
<p>On a very nerdy note I was delighted that the Eclipse package is finally up to the latest for Ubuntu in the officially support repository.   I hate when I have to go do something special for a decidedly popular piece of software.</p>
<p>Now I still don&#8217;t think the basic PC user should bust out Linux.   There&#8217;s still enough that CAN go wrong and when it does they will be lost or calling a pro.   It pains me to say that, but it&#8217;s the same way I feel about phones, cars, TVs&#8230; if you&#8217;re mainstream, stick to mainstream stuff where the support will be easier and cheaper and more standard.</p>
<p>Linux or not&#8230; this is a freaking sweet release.   You gotta love great software no matter your brand preference.  </p>
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		<title>Just sayin&#8217;&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 17:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Any man who afflicts the human race with ideas must be prepared to see them misunderstood.&#8221; &#8212;H.L. Mencken: attacker of ignorance, intolerance, frauds, fundamentalist Christianity, osteopathy, myths and writers that mocked him for sport…<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1626&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<h2>Any man who afflicts the human race with ideas must be prepared to see them misunderstood.&#8221;</h2>
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<p style="text-align:right;padding-left:120px;">&#8212;H.L. Mencken: <em>attacker of ignorance, intolerance, frauds, fundamentalist Christianity, osteopathy, myths and writers that mocked him for sport…</em><a title="Chiropractic" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chiropractic"></a></p>
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		<title>Business People Learning From Elite Athletes:  One Approach</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 16:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To start, the goal is not to be an ‘elite’ athlete… Fourth in a 5-Part Series for www.SocialMode.com (1)   Sports, like businesses or social movements have goals and costs. (2)   The best way to advance is through the “Do”. (3)    &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2010/05/26/business-people-learning-from-elite-athletes-one-approach-3/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1620&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><span style="color:#800000;"><strong>To start, the goal <em>is  not</em> to be an ‘elite’ athlete…</strong></span></h2>
<p><strong><strong><span style="color:#0000ff;">Fourth in a 5-Part Series for www.SocialMode.com</span><br />
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<p><strong> </strong><span style="color:#333333;">(1)   <strong>Sports, like businesses or social </strong><strong>movements  have goals and costs. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#333333;">(2)   <strong>The best way to advance is through the “Do”.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#333333;">(3)    <strong>Focus on long-term benefits as well as short-term  gains</strong></span></p>
<h2>(4)   <strong>It is not ‘automaticity’ <em>per se</em> that leads to high proficiency.</strong></h2>
<p>&#8220;Automaticity&#8221; is the perception that someone is in the &#8216;flow&#8221;; they make what they are involved in look automatic.</p>
<p><strong><em> </em></strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><em>Competitors train to do stuff right; winners train so they can’t do it wrong.</em></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong><em> </em></strong>In business and in sport the level of skill at which automaticity is  attained is constantly changing.  When <strong>the rate</strong> of that change slows too  much, in sport and in business, things start to get dicey.</p>
<p>Most people never develop beyond their hobby levels of expertise because that is the level at which they are able to do things ‘automatically’. We&#8217;ve all seen those people in business.  We&#8217;ve also seen them in different sports. Their comfort level is large and ever present.</p>
<p>For club golfers, swimmers or competitive tennis players, their levels of expertise for ‘doing stuff right’ in their sport are sub-par, as it were.  To truly excel, there is always some part [life, sport, relationships] that <em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">is not</span></em> automatic yet that needs attention.</p>
<p>When you raise the bar in each component area, you’ll move from an automatic state (large comfort zone) to a non-automatic state (&#8216;zero&#8217; comfort zone).  Some can&#8217;t hack the loss of comfort.  Others find it’s OK to have small comfort zones because you are betting they are only temporary.</p>
<p>It becomes a balancing act between  that automaticity important in the &#8220;now&#8221; is the elite level to be reached you were working toward.   One elite athlete I know said to me,</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The day I take the elevator rather than walk up ten floors is the day I&#8217;ll have decided to give up being World Champion.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>So most of us settle short of an elite status (business /sport); for club performance, for less, for sub-par.   Thus, we rationalize not reaching our highest potentials in one area when we come to value our current level, or &#8220;other&#8221; events or circumstances. That too is OK because you know what you are doing. That is life.</p>
<p>When we settle in business, others may identify it as ‘lost opportunity costs” and that may not be OK.  But know that the number of mountains to climb -<em> literally and figuratively</em> &#8211; are enormous and, clearly, some are more fun to climb than others.</p>
<p><strong>You get to decide.</strong></p>
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		<title>Are traditions roadblocks or safety nets?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 20:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Historically, the search for a way to describe the mechanics of what is going on out there in the world and how it impacts what is going on with organisms [sometimes referenced as “the mind”, personality, cognition, consciousness, intuition, etc.] &#8230; <a href="http://socialmode.com/2010/05/25/are-traditions-roadblocks-or-safety-nets/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=socialmode.com&#038;blog=2310475&#038;post=1614&#038;subd=un1crom&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Historically, the search for a way to describe the mechanics of what is going on out there in the world and how it impacts what is going on with organisms [sometimes referenced as “the mind”, personality, cognition, consciousness, intuition, etc.] is that the fields of psychology have always used metaphors, similes, and analogies, in part, because most of the areas morphed out of philosophy, religion and literature.</p>
<p>Clearly for Descartes, mechanisms [particularly clocks and hydraulics] were big at the time and from there it wasn’t a stretch to embrace the naturalistic model, then the disease model, then the computer analogies, all the while <strong><em>not</em></strong> letting go of the metaphors, analogies, and similes that preceded it.</p>
<p>Yes, don’t forget the impact of the 70’s drug culture on 40+ years of speculation on consciousness, the inner self, higher self, etc.</p>
<p>The outcome of much of the theory and speculation was increased awareness at the cost of precision.  All three influences are with us today as embedded vernacular, imagery, and rationales’ applied to the understanding of organisms.  We still embrace the vernacular and the idioms of Freud as if they were true, valid or valuable.  At another level, these approaches are embraced and morph as needed because there is little to replace them that the populace could cling to considering Western Judo-Christian history, laws, and sometimes even a bully Western philosophical interpretation of all matters. The terms, concepts, etc., work because they explain behavior to many that are clueless and communication-less without such pop-snarkness, having otherwise to depend on greater superstition, folklore and ‘commonsense’ explanations than they currently do.  Said more succinctly, while the theory of mind may keep us from looking at the causes of behavior, it has some value, more than other Freudian alternatives or those endless literature dumps proposed by philosophy, theology and sociology.</p>
<p>As metaphors are wont to do, they work to make intangibly complex relationships more tangible, understandable, usable and communicable.  Science has not had a history of doing that well either so the result is there is little pragmatic value change in understanding what the heck is going on out there and ‘in’ there if science doesn’t make cases well enough.</p>
<p>The lay vocabulary we end up using is residue that provides consistent, sometimes vivid equivalents for concepts until the understanding of relationships and patterns can get sorted out.   A MAJOR problem comes from the reification of those terms like mind, need, motivation, personality, evil, addiction, intuition, etc., such that they are never scientifically challenged or shown to be what they are; a trail of metaphysical left-overs from philosophy, theoretical speculations and dependence on analogies, similes, and metaphors.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, the metaphor has become reified to the extreme by the world’s citizens and, through the conditioning we all used to get an education, became the reality of what it was a &#8216;place holder&#8217; for. We’ve all seen it over and over: what had been an incomplete story-like example became the “thing” studied, described, interacted with before suddenly becoming <em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">raison d&#8217;être.</span></em></p>
<p><em>There is no bridge between pragmatism and articulated science.  If one can’t use what science provides people – even academia – will embellish what they have and use it it as they have for centuries.   Traditions allow us to avoid the constant assessment tasks that are needed.You know the old saw, </em></p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;<span style="text-decoration:underline;">insanity</span> is doing the same things over and over and expected the results to be different&#8217; </em>(-Einstein or W. Deming; take your pick) <em> </em></p></blockquote>
<p><em></em><em>By embracing those states that come to keep us comfortable and un-questioning, only those events we subjectively or theatrically sense as catastrophic will generate uncomfortable questions that when answered will make a difference. </em></p>
<p>Thus, for you to entertain changing your sense of how anything works, business, families, social networks, corporations, football teams, etc. (you get the idea) you’ll need to get fired, get shunned, get de-friended, get passed over, lose the Super Bowl, and many other things equivalent to a kick in the ass.  When that happens, most of us change our perspective a wee bit after we get up… others just continue to blame or claim the world is evil, unkind, gone mad, filled with greed before setting out to get restitution, get even or get a lawyer.</p>
<h2><strong>How’s that last option working?</strong></h2>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/19/opinion/19pressler.html?emc=eta1&amp;pagewanted=print">Pressler in his NYT</a> article of May 18<sup>th</sup> 2010, takes a stab at explaining why Connecticut’s attorney general, Richard Blumenthal and other unnamed people in the lime-light say and perform in corrupt or dishonest ways to get ahead can be accounted for as “<strong>rooted in the dishonesty that surrounded the Vietnam-era draft</strong>.&#8221;</p>
<p>If only life was so simple and had a list of absolute causes and values as he posits.  His argument is flawed; No, not in the straw-man ‘us’ vs. ‘them’ sense.</p>
<p>Just because he lived in the midst of the Vietnam War changes doesn’t give him or his generation any special knowledge [as implied] of that period he calls the “The Technicality Generation”.</p>
<blockquote><p>“… many in my generation knew they were using a broken (but legal) system to shirk their duty. They cloaked themselves in idealism but deep down had to know they were engaging in a charade. (I, too, was against the Vietnam war and felt that people should protest, but not dodge their draft responsibility.)</p></blockquote>
<p>The above quote shows that what Pressler valued, others didn’t, be it the system, the War, the ‘duty’ to serve, and so on.  It also points out a more insidious case that (1) fear of consequences is a pervasive driver of behavior and (2) we [<em>Homo sapiens</em>] don’t have the slightest understanding of why we do what we do and don’t do what we don’t do.</p>
<p>The latter point (2) is the point of this response to his article.</p>
<p><em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Pressler has confused the causes with some effects &#8212; in his castigation of others in his article</span>. </em>It is not BECAUSE of the Vietnam War, but having an understanding of what you value was up for assessment in the 60’s.  Rules of life were changing.  More and more people were seeing patterns that didn’t make sense.  More and more people were questioning the basis of past rules in the context of their 28,500 days on earth.  They were questioning the basis of past antecedents linked to how they were supposed to behave as well as the expected consequences for that behavior.</p>
<p>The fact that “someone poorer or less educated, and usually African-American, had to serve” when others didn’t, is one of those consequences in life, not just for Vietnam, but for life in general.  As a Rhodes Scholar Pressler might want to review history, contingencies  management, and factors modulating individual behavior.</p>
<p>Besides finances and education, many of those who served were also culturally separate, had different histories, had different contexts and had different prospects for the immediate futures than those who didn’t.  Yes, there were a large number of African-Americans.  There was also an abundance of other minorities as well, just as it is today in a volunteer armed services world.  This ‘abundance’ has an abundance of causes.  None of those minorities had exactly the same set of values [learned rules in cultural – community] for enlisting, serving <strong>or NOT</strong> serving and avoiding Vietnam.</p>
<p>This Pressler logic implies that everyone who used the law, their circumstances, etc., and <em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">didn’t go to Vietnam </span></em>had similar values and everyone that <em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">did go to Vietnam </span></em>had a different set of values &#8211; like those aligned with Pressler himself which he contends were the correct values.  As if Pressler himself or his generation invented functional dualism, Pressler then castigates others for not doing what he did concerning his definition of “basic responsibilities.”</p>
<blockquote><p>“Once my generation got in the habit of saying one thing and believing another, it couldn’t stop.”</p></blockquote>
<h2 style="padding-left:30px;"><strong><span style="color:#800000;"><strong><em>Please!</em></strong></span></strong></h2>
<p>If all that happened in the 60’s hadn’t happened as it did, things would be different today than they are.</p>
<p>His contention is that things would be better.  I maintain that he has a long way to go to show any such reason for that conclusion. If anything he has shown that <em>&#8216;the system&#8217;</em> that he and others fought for, works&#8230;  including catching up to Mr. Blumenthal’s and having the consequences of his betrayal of constituents, state, friends and family come into play.  Maybe due to the thorough level of vetting of individuals Pressler&#8217;s article should more poignantly have been titled:  &#8220;FROM THE VETTING GENERATION: WELCOME!&#8221;</p>
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